I can't imagine that I would ever want to get married myself, but if my other half wanted to, I would consider it on 2 conditions
1) We take out the for ever and ever stuff. I'm also not sure about the idea of promising to be in love - it seems odd to me - like the wording is slightly out. You are in love or not. You can promise to try, to work for it and so on. But that's mostly a wording issue
2) That it's not a church wedding, although if we're doing point 1 I suppose it wouldn't be anyway. I really object to the idea that the church have some kind of authority to tell me if it's OK for me to have sex with someone.
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Date: April 29th, 2003 03:34 am (UTC)From:1) We take out the for ever and ever stuff. I'm also not sure about the idea of promising to be in love - it seems odd to me - like the wording is slightly out. You are in love or not. You can promise to try, to work for it and so on. But that's mostly a wording issue
2) That it's not a church wedding, although if we're doing point 1 I suppose it wouldn't be anyway. I really object to the idea that the church have some kind of authority to tell me if it's OK for me to have sex with someone.
Good luck with your marriage!