All these things that I have done

I remember the thing that hit me the most (emotionally) at my Gran's funeral, and got me so moist eyed, was when they lifted the coffin out of the hearse. It was so very small. It hit me - that all of this could come down to such a small box. As for hugs, I think you need them more right now, *hugs*

Did you manage to have yourself a good birthday weekend? I hope so...